Safe Dating
*1 in 5 teens who have been in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed by a partner.
*1 in 3 teenagers report knowing a friend or peer who has been hit, punched, kicked, slapped, choked or physically hurt by their partner.
Abuse can also be verbal and emotional.
Know The Warning Signs of Dating Violence and Relationship Abuse
Dating Violence is extremely common among teens.
Even if your partner is charming and sweet at first, look out for signs of abusive relationships, such as:
- isolating you from friends and family
- having angry outbursts
- blaming others for problems
- threatening to hurt you during arguments
- getting extremely jealous for no reason
- acting cruel toward animals or children
- trying to control you by belittling your values or ideas.
- trying to control how you dress or look.
Things to talk about with your child before going on a date:
Avoid Drugs and Alcohol
*Drugs and alcohol compromise your ability to make smart decisions and to escape dangerous situations. They can make you take risks you wouldn't usually take with your body, your car and your safety in general. * keep an eye on your glass at all times: Many teens are sexually assaulted after someone slips a powerful sedative drug into whatever they're drinking. Resisting the urge to drink is the best way to prevent getting hurt and having to deal with the consequences of unwanted sex.
Curfew: Know what the curfew is in your town and set a time that your family is comfortable with.
Sex talk: Make sure you have had “the talk” with your teen, and have explained S.T.D’s and consequences of underage sex.
“NO means NO”: It is important to teach your children (both sexes) what that really means and the consequences if that isn’t honored.
EXIT plan in place: If your child is out on a date and things aren’t going right or they are not comfortable; be sure you have a plan in place to be able to go get them.
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