The Internet offers a world of education and unlimited knowledge. Children are open to new ways of learning and connecting with friends and family. But as we all know, they are also exposed to a world of potential dangers. Texting, gaming apps and social networking platforms can expose your child to cyberbullying, inappropriate and explicit material, and alarmingly, even to sexual predators.
As a parent, it’s important to be aware of the issues in today’s digital era.
Children who communicate with strangers online are easy prey for online predators. Often, we have an image of a sexual predator lurking around school playgrounds, scoping out their potential victims. The reality is today’s predators search for victims while hiding behind a computer screen.
Prey on a child’s desire for romance, adventure and sexual information;
Manipulate a child by listening to and sympathizing with the child’s problems and insecurities;
Flatter and compliment the child excessively;
Drive a wedge between the child and his or her parents and friends;
Make threats and use child pornography featuring the victim to blackmail them into silence.
While every parent worries about online predators, research shows that it’s fairly rare for kids to be contacted by adult strangers seeking sexual communication. This doesn’t mean you should let your guard down, however. Always stay on top of what your child is doing online. Ask them which apps, games and other tech they use. If they’re on social media, friend or follow them. Set rules about times and places for device use (for example, banning phones and tablets from bedrooms). Find out how they chat; is it through an app or are they texting on their phone?
By being diligent and aware of your child’s online activities and digital footprint, and taking an active role in knowing what your children are doing online, you can help make the digital world a safe one for them.