Bullying in Junior High

According to a report by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services administration, for every 25 middle school students, an average of two kids are harassed daily, while two or three are bullied weekly. In addition, almost nine out of 10 kids say they’ve seen someone being bullied.

While bullying in elementary school involved more physical acts, bullying in junior high begins to focus on the mental and emotional aspects of abuse. Verbal abuse is common, with middle school children teasing each other about such things as body size, clothing choices, hairstyles and hygiene.

Emotional bullying happens in the form of social alienation, which, although very subtle, can have long-lasting effects. Junior high students may exclude one another from their regular circle of friends, with the victim eating lunch alone, not having a partner in gym class, or being excluded from parties and get-togethers outside of school.

Junior high students also begin to become exposed to bullying through electronic media or cyberbullying. With today’s teen rarely being out of ouch, students may do such things as post derogatory comments on each other’s social media pages, or e-mail or text threats to another student.

Studies show that bullies in junior high school are more likely to pick on people their own age. And while girls are more likely to verbally harass, boys usually use physical attacks, but are also likely to verbally threaten and harass someone.

What you can do

Teach your child to be assertive. Emphasize peaceful ways to solve problems.
Hold kids accountable. If children stand by and watch someone being bullied, make it clear their behavior hurts the victim, too.
Be a good example. If you see someone being bullied or hurt, help them.
Download the maskmatters app for your child(ren)
What bullying looks like
Name calling, degrading comments
Social isolation
Gossip, starting rumors
Criticism
Threatening comments
Fighting, pushing and shoving
Cyberbullying (Social media sites, texts and e-mails)
Breaks or destroys things belonging to the victim
Teasing about who their peers associate with

Conversation starters

Have you ever witnessed someone being bullied? How did you handle it?
Have you ever been bullied? How did it make you feel?
I can remember being bullied in school. Have you had to deal with a situation like that?
I heard that kids sometimes post videos on YouTube of kids fighting.
What do you think about that?
How would you feel if someone created a fake instagram profile about you?
Why do you think someone bullies?
Do you think adults can be bullies?
When kids stand up to the bully, the bully will most likely realize his actions are not okay.

To read more about how to deal with your child being bullied add the Bully Issue to your MASK Library.

MASK the Parenting Magazine a quarterly publication providing solutions for Today’s Families.

The parenting manual offering solutions to the modern-day challenges families face. From Pre-K

through College stay up to date on the modern day issues families face.

Are you up to date on the issues your child is facing?

MASK Mothers Awareness on School-age Kids offers parenting solutions for today’s families. MASK tackles important topics – from drugs and alcohol to bullying and Internet safety -and gives students, parents and the community the knowledge and tools to manage these potential challenges.

Subscribe today! https://www.maskmatters.org/product/mask-the-magazine/